We can’t help people who don’t want help.

We can’t help people change who don’t want to change.

We can’t make people care who don’t care.

People are stubborn, bullheaded, and hardheaded.

People are fixed and steadfast.

We can try to help.

We can reach out.

We can be there.

We can be a resource.

We can care.

We can’t force.

People must choose.

People must decide for themselves.

People must be open.

People must be ready.

People must be willing.

People must take the first step.

And if people are serious and take the first step, we should meet them there.