If you don’t care about me, respect me, and show interest in me and my life, what makes you think I’m going to drop everything and make sacrifices for you?
Relationships are two-way streets. Relationships are reciprocal. Relationships require give-and-take.
I’m not being selfish. I do have limits and boundaries.
I do recognize fairness when I see it. I do have self-respect.
Respect yourself or nobody else will.