We chase.

We pressure. We force.

We’re desperate. We’re needy.

We panic. We rush.

We obsess.

When we chase, we scare away.

When we force and pressure, we push further away.

Chill. Calm down. Be cool.

It’s almost like playing hard to get.

Are we too easy? Are we showing too much interest? Are we too available and accessible?

Maybe the less interest we show the more interest we’ll get.

We try. We try so hard. Maybe too hard.

Let life come to us. Let whatever it is come to us. Let life evolve naturally. Let it flow. Let life unfold before our eyes.

Attract. Don’t deflect.

Stop chasing. Know when to be aggressive. Know when to sit back, kick our feet up, wait, and chill. Be cool my friends.