Your time is yours. Your money is yours.
You control how you use your time. You control how you spend your money.
Don’t let others tell you how to use your time and spend your money.
You are in control of yourself and your life.
Others can’t control you unless you let them and enable it. Don’t give them permission. Say no or walk away.
If you let it continue, it’s your own fault and you’re the one to blame.